On Wednesday we had a lovely visit with my two grandmothers. My maternal Nana (Nana M) turned 87, and we joined her for lunch at the assisted living place. Both of my grandmothers live in the same assisted living place, so despite it being a 2 1/2 hour trip, it’s quite easy to visit both of them. (The picture at right is from a few months ago, the camera needed batteries and the pics of the Nanas didn’t come out)

It turns out that Wednesdays are “Chef’s Choice” for lunch, and because we had reserved the private dining room, the chef called my mother to ask what we would like to have served for lunch. This chef had been wonderful about accommodating food allergies and celiac disease, but we didn’t want to make things too difficult for him.
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My mom replied, “what my mother would like best, you couldn’t do.”
The chef answered, “try me.”
My mom said, “lobster.”
And the chef surprised us all by saying, “ok, lobster rolls, lobster salad for the folks with allergies, and grilled vegetables on the side!”

Let me tell you, when I’m older, I hope I can live in a place as wonderful as this one! This lobster salad was warmed, with no mayo, and was incredibly divine, with huge chunks of lobster. And as an extra bonus, there were seconds and thirds offered!

My Nana M’s uncle, Izzy, and his sister Flo also live in the same assisted living place, so after lunch they joined us for dessert and birthday wishes.

For dessert, we tried the new Betty Crocker Gluten-Free chocolate cake mix (which is made in a gluten-free facility) - review here. We topped it with a “chocolate syrup frosting” my mother made, and then set out some lovely candied violets. The cake was moist and delicious, and we made room. Though MG had eaten 4ths on lobster and couldn’t finish her cake. I had only had 2 1/2 servings, so I could help LG finish off MG’s piece. Perhaps BG was the smart one, she had seconds on soup rather than lobster and saved her appetite for cake, and ate two pieces!

When dessert was finished, Nana M went to a doctor’s appointment with my mom, while we met up with Nana R (my paternal Nana, seen here in a picture from her 91st birthday last September). She was enroute to High Stakes Bingo, where you have to pony up a nickle to play. BG and LG helped her out (though she wins well enough without them!), and MG was invited to play by another resident. Nana R was so happy to show off her great-granddaughters! And I’m always happy to be called a “young girl” by someone! Luckily for BG, in the 3rd game she got a card, too.

Watching the residents and the girls play bingo was wonderful. There’s such spunk, such individuality, and such fun among the residents, and the employees are wonderful. I get teary when I think of the devotion and openness of the folks employed there - they clearly know the residents so very well, and they recognize how wonderful they all are, including my two Nanas! The gentle combination of teasing and politeness really shows how genuine they are about caring for every individual.

It was a long and exhausting day, but one that built more great memories. I am very lucky to have so many wonderful memories of time with my Nanas!

The weather in New England has not been particularly summer-like. So, any day that it isn’t raining should be celebrated! On Friday morning, we took a walk through the local conservation land, and around a pond, and then had lunch at home while it rained for a little bit.

However, the rain stopped again after lunch, and it continued to be warmer than it had been for ages, so we packed up our swim bag, put on our swim suits, packed up some shovels and buckets, put everything into a wagon, and walked off to a new-to-us nearby beach. I couldn’t believe that there was a beach just a few blocks from where we live that we had never explored! It’s a lovely, quiet, and protected beach, too - just right for taking a few kids and a picnic.

We had some trouble at first pulling the wagon, as the only one who was the right size to pull it was LG, and it was a bit heavy for LG to pull. So, the girls worked out the best way to pull the wagon. This turned into a roller-coaster style ride for MG as she sat on the wagon and was pulled by a sister on either side.

Once we got to the beach, everything was dropped on the sand, and the girls hurtled themselves into the water. It was surprisingly cold, but BG and MG quickly ducked under and started swimming. After realizing the intense cold of the water, LG didn’t get more than her feet wet, and worked on making sandcastles rather than swimming.

It was fun watching the older girls swim and play in the water, they looked like seals when their heads popped up out of the water, bobbing as they swam around. I don’t know how they can stand the cold, they definitely don’t have a layer of blubber to keep them warm, like seals do!

After swimming and digging, the girls climbed the rocks on the side of the beach, a trick they seem to do at every beach - who knows what they would do if they were at a beach without rocks! This habit proves that climbing the rock wall at the YMCA like little monkeys can come in handy at other times, too. I’m always amazed that they have the energy and coordination to climb rocks after swimming in that cold water for so long! While LG can’t climb quite as high as her sisters can, she still has pretty impressive rock climbing skills, and she’s so proud of what she can do!

At the end of our time at the beach, the girls picked some wildflowers to bring home, and of course MG had to put a couple flowers in her braids. They looked so cute, and I remember doing things like that when I was little - I’m sure I looked a lot like her, too!

It wasn’t raining this morning, so the girls and I took a lovely walk in the woods near a pond close to the house. There are a lot of trails, some lovely views of the pond, and some beautiful flowers that had grown in the rain. Of course, the whole area was very, very, very green after 3 weeks of rain!

When we approached a creek, LG said, “This the dangerous part! Dun, dun, dun!” We walked across the creek on some well-positioned stepping stones, and accomplished a walk without any injuries! (knock on wood)

Other high points were trying to figure out why there is a sewer manhole cover in the middle of the woods, having some lovely dogs come up to be petted, eating some Backyard Bbq Chips and Sea Salt & Vinegar chips in the middle of the “horse circle” and on a big rock, playing with walking sticks, walking on a beach, seeing several teepees/lean-tos made out of sticks, watching the ducks at another pond, and then finally looking in at a boatyard and spying Lapstrake and Edge-Joined wooden boats being repaired.

Some days are lovely, even when they aren’t perfect! (Even when I forget the camera and I’m left with blurry cell phone shots!)

And then when we were two blocks away from home, it started to rain again. Ugh! I’m hoping for at least some sun this weekend!

Last night after dinner, I took the girls on a walk. I was trying to get some wiggles out (after how many days stuck inside in the rain?), and also trying to get them a bit tired out before bed. My mom offered to run a warm tub, and the girls had their bedtime stuff all set out. So off we went into the rain, with slickers and umbrellas and some of us in rain boots.

We walked to a local pond and visited the white goose, and then started back, with a lot of puddle jumping by the folks in rain boots. When we got close to home, there was a huge puddle, and I was feeling jealous of the puddle jumpers. Since we were close to home, I held hands with MG and we jumped into the puddle. Then we kept jumping over and over! Great fun was had by all, and we were all quite wet by the end of it.

As we started walking away from the puddle, LG’s boots had water in them, and they made wonderful “squelch, squerch, squelch, squerch” noises, just like the ones made in We’re Going on a Bear Hunt as they walk through the mud.

This inspired me, and the rest of our walk had We’re Going on a Bear Hunt as a spoken word accompaniment.

“We’re going on a bear hunt, we’re gonna catch a big one! What a beautiful day, we’re not scared!”

Going through the river, the mud, the long grass of the meadow, etc - then bumping into the bear and running all the way home back through the meadow, mud, river, etc.

I highly recommend reading We’re Going on a Bear Hunt if you haven’t already (such cute pictures! what a catchy refrain!), but more than that, go re-enact it and take your kids for a walk (whatever the weather), and incorporate the obstacles on your walk into the retelling of story.

Now, what other books would work well for re-enacting on a walk?

We’ve had a lot of sunshine here, and the girls’ faces alight with happiness with each ray of sunshine. It’s been wonderful to see them playing at the beach, running in the yard, and helping in the garden.

The girls have also started visiting their father more this week, and without anyone supervising. They had fun on Wednesday having dinner, and I’m hoping they have fun with him tomorrow, too.

Sunday is BG’s 11th birthday! How on earth did I become the mother of an almost 11 year old? Wait, no, i don’t mean it that way, I mean how did time pass so quickly? She’s excited to have a special birthday time with her grandparents, and then there will be special presents and fun with her mom and sisters, too.

Saturday night will definitely be quiet with just the two younger girls here, and without their grandparents! Somehow I think we’ll have fun anyhow - and we need to make a cake!

Meanwhile, I managed somehow to win a contest! Many thanks to Melanie for hosting the Big Pepsi Giveaway. I have been looking forward to trying Pepsi without corn syrup, and now we have some cool accessories for our (soon, soon, soon we hope!) new apartment!