We spent a few hours at the beach yesterday, and managed to pick a time when it wasn’t horribly busy. The girls had a great time, and the newest pictures start here.
There was a lot of scavenging yesterday - BG and MG dug for clams (score - BG 6, MG 1), and then stuck their clams back in the sand since we don’t have a clamming license. And yes, the shellfish police check for that.
Meanwhile, LG spent time collecting shells, and making sure they got properly rinsed off.
After the clam & shell scavenging was completed, the girls searched for crabs, collecting a few of the best ones, but were forced to let them go at the end of the day. Missing from that pic is this awesome spider-looking crab, complete with tortoise-shell markings.
They finished the day making a sand castle with their friends, and then were forced to come home to get ready for dinner.
We left only footprints, and brought home memories, pictures, and a big bunch of shells.
Looking forward to another day at the beach and the joys of collecting and scavenging.
I take a lot of pics of the girls, but they don’t always capture their inner selves. This one, though, shows LG’s personality so much more than the beautiful angelic ones.
LG with her fairy gear:

Proving that ANYTHING can be a weapon in the right hands. And that even the most angelic child can have a touch or more of mischeif!
So, some of my readers are parents, but all of you must have parents, right?
I spent my life being told I look like my mom. To the point where I would be working at the local movie theater and people would come up and say, “you’re xx’s daughter!” As a bonus, my mom DID know what I did when I went out ‘cos her network of spies er, her friends, would see me and tell her.
So, of my 3 girls, only one has dark hair like I do. People have said she looks like me, but I think she looks like the others, who look like my husband.
Well, my mom took a picture of her with her new haircut, and oh my gosh, I totally see it now. It’s quite freaky. She looks exactly like I did around that age. Wow.

Today MG is 8. Below is her self-portrait taken on her last day of being 7 and a sketch made by one of our favorite t-shirt designers, JadenKale (who has a shirt called Oh Burned!!! currently for sale. You’ll see more about this shirt in tomorrow’s post). They completely fit her personality!

MG is a gemini, and like her dad and her Vovo, she fits the star sign completely - she is really happy-go-lucky and laid back, until she is NOT. She is also our goofy girl, our clown, our child who is most likely to be giggling at any given time. MG is also the child with the most active imagination, and in our family, that is really saying something! MG has her head in the clouds, imagining her own little world, and will happily tell you how different things are in her world from the real world.
It’s a fun challenge being a mom to a child who is so imaginative, happy, and intense in a completely different way from her sisters. She is a mix of a challenge and a stand-up comic. MG is the child who most looks like me, who loves reading, and who loves purple. She is also the child who has her very own fashion sense and an energy level that had her dubbed “hurricaine” when she would run around us in circles as a “toddler”. MG is also the girl that pulls her sisters together, the one who will happily play with either, both, or none.
Sweet, goofy, fun, serious, spacey, lovable MG, happy 8th birthday. Enjoy your day and your Pokemon stuff, you deserve a great day. I’m glad to have you as my girl!
We are a family which loves to play games. Card games, board games, outside games, and other games that seem to defy description. When Parent Bloggers Network was looking for someone to test the Discovery Store game Rapelli, we were happy to give it a try. The Rapelli Game is a 15 minute game which is part of the Discovery Store’s new line of bamboo products, and is designed for kids ages 4+.

Bamboo is a renewable resource which has become popular for creating everything from sheets to flooring. Bamboo grows and matures quickly, making it easy to harvest and then plant another crop, unlike slow-growing trees. Bamboo’s versatility is well-utilized in Rapelli, the pieces are multi-sectioned caterpillars, dice, and a cylinder, all of which look just like wood. Discovery has a pop-up window which explains more about their eco-friendly products, the natural materials, and environmental sustainability. Usually the consumer is torn between wood, which is natural but requires cutting down trees, and plastic, which could contain any number of chemicals, but doesn’t use up the forests. Bamboo offers a third choice which combines the benefits of both, without the negatives of either. Bamboo grows well in China, and the Discovery Store collection of bamboo toys are made in China in conjunction with several agencies.
This week is Food Allergy Awareness week, and this month is Celiac Disease Awareness month. To honor both of these, we are participating on the bi-weekly Food Allergy carnival and talking about summer camp despite food restrictions
Our family has Celiac Disease, an intolerance to dairy, and LG has a severe berry allergy. We bring our own food to birthday parties, parks, and playdates, but I never wanted the dietary restrictions to restrict the girls’ access to activities. Occasionally an event is so food-centered that we can’t participate, but as food restrictions become more well-known, we can go to more and more events without risking a reaction.
Some days, it feels like our food allergies are a complete non-issue. Kids play here or in the neighborhood and they eat popcorn, we go to the park and have some chips, we hang out at the beach with some trail mix, etcetera. Some days it is an issue - my girls take some treats when they go over to a friend’s house, or they can’t stay for dinner with a friend, or there’s an activity that looks great except that it includes cooking with flour or using play-doh, or when a friend’s been eating a sandwich then puts their hand in your chips, which means you can’t eat the chips any more. Those are the hard days, and the days that keep me on my toes, keep me from becoming complacent.

Last year BG and MG went to camp for 2 weeks (check out BG in the above photo from the camp brochure!). It’s a day camp, and they had a week off at home to rest in between the two camp sessions. Thanks to their grandparents, they were able to go to a wonderful camp on an island, taking a boat to and from the island each day. To make it even more special, it’s a camp I attended for 10 years.
Is it tricky to attend camp when you can’t eat a regular sandwich and need to have kids wash up after they eat a sandwich? Yes, but it’s totally worth it. Their heads are filled with memories from those weeks, and we are happy to do the prep work so they can attend.
My mother talked to the camp and counselors about the girls’ dietary needs, and so did I. We discussed lunch and snack times, papier maché (no flour/water paste), play-doh, and the need for hand-washing. While I am saddened by the number of children with peanut allergies, their existence has really helped raise awareness about food allergies and restrictions. Everyone at the camp was comfortable with the girls dietary needs and happy to help out. This was key for me - if you find what looks like a great camp, but they seem clueless about food allergies, back away! You don’t want to risk your child’s health for summer camp - find another camp.
This year they’re attending camp for 2 consecutive weeks and it will also include a sleep-over on the island. We will continue to work in advance to help keep camp safe for the girls, and I’m sure the counselors will continue to be as helpful this summer as they were last summer! First, we asked that our girls wash hands before they eat, and have their friends wash hands after they eat. This reduces the chances of cross-contamination, and is generally a healthy idea anyhow. Food sharing is a no-no at most camps now, but a reminder about that printed on lunch bags is a great idea, too.
In advance we bought a variety of favorite snacks, and plenty of snack-size and sandwich size ziplocs. This is much more economical than buying everything in single size bags, and it gives you a greater range of snacks - not everything is sold in little bags! We also froze bottles of water so they would keep the food cold and give the girls cold water later in the day. We don’t usually do a lot of juice, so it was special to have juice boxes or pouches for their lunch!
One trick for us was to include a fair amount of protein, as camp requires a lot of energy, and low amounts of protein tend to make my kids grumpy! Peanuts and nuts are safe for us, and great for a protein kick (we all love Larabar Bars Variety Pack and KIND Bar Almond & Apricot), but they aren’t allowed in most schools or camps. Instead, we added meat sticks (such as Jack Links Super Size Beef Sticks), beef jerky (such as World Kitchens Brown Sugar Beef Jerky), and nut-free trail mix (such as Enjoy Life Trail Mix Not Nuts! Beach Bash). If you’re looking to stock up, you can get great prices on allergy-safe and gluten-free treats at Amazon.
LG has an epi-pen and is the one with the severe berry allergy. She’s still too young for the day camp on the island, and I’m grateful. I wouldn’t be comfortable with having her on an island with a potentially anaphylactic allergy. We can hope she outgrows it in the next two years! I’m still working out my comfort level with having her go on field trips with people who aren’t me, her dad, or her grandparents.
What accommodations have your kids needed for camp? Check back tomorrow for a link to the Food Allergy Carnival!
It’s been gorgeous here lately! The sun is too bright for me to work on the laptop outside, even!
And why are we outside all day? Well, BG got an incredible bike for her birthday, so BG and MG are riding all around the neighborhood, and exploring with some friends. The bike has gears and shocks, and is just a wonderful bike for her to ride on roads, grass, or trails.
The older girls have also started to take their bikes down to the playground, and play with the other kids in the area. I follow on my scooter with LG and at least one dog, and we hang out. It’s great!
I have to be careful about sunburns, though - the first day on the beach I got burned.
Sadly, my camera isn’t working, but my mom was nice enough to take a few pictures, including two of MG scaling the rock wall and BG climbing the rock wall. They both climbed to the top the first time! We’ll have to go back soon, they loved it. I’m hoping LG is tall enough to join them soon!
So, what’s been up with you while I’ve been distracted by the nice weather?
edited: because I mis-typed a link, making it all go wonky
BG turned 10 today! I can’t believe that she has been here for a decade! It feels like only yesterday she was a baby that needed to be held, nursed, and cuddled all the time. Babies are cute for a reason - they make you sooooo tired! Here’s a pic from when she was 7 months old:

Now she’s just as cute, but so much her own person, with a very strong personality. She is very verbal, very social, and feels everything very strongly. She is an incredibly loyal friend, and she loves to play any number of imaginative, board, or other games. I am so proud to be her mom! BG’s a great kid.
Now it’s time for visiting the grandparents and picking up her new bike!
We are continuing our reviews on Social Skills DVDs (check out our previous review of Skill Builder Buddies) in partnership with the Parent Bloggers Network in recognition of April as Autism Awareness Month. Our oldest daughter lives with Sensory Integration Disorder and other related issues, so we have spent many years focusing on social skills awareness, and scripting how situations will play out. Leave a comment on the Parent Bloggers Network Blog for a chance to win both DVDs!
Kibbles Rockin’ Clubhouse vol. 1 Expressing Yourself is a DVD from NoteAbilities, which is aimed at children ages 2-7 with Autistic Spectrum Disorders and other associated issues. If you’ve struggled with helping your child understand how others are feeling, you might need more tools to help your child recognize emotions in others and cope with their own emotions. Kibbles Rockin’ Clubhouse is a great way to add tools to your toolbox and to your child’s toolbox in a fun way with catchy songs.