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Dirty Sugar Cookies: A cooking memoir

December 7th, 2007 by Rachel

I finally finished Dirty Sugar Cookies: Culinary Observations, Questionable Taste, by Ayun Halliday. I used it as a car book, because I owned it (and therefore didn’t have to worry about finishing it before it became overdue) and it is perfect for short bursts of reading, as the chapters are short and hold their own – no need to hold a plot in your mind from one chapter to another.

Why yes, i do realize that everyone else in the world reviewed this book quite some time ago. However, if you happen to be looking around for a more recent review, you’ve come to the right place!

I should also preface this review by saying that I have read all of Ayun Halliday’s books and loved them all. Sure, there were parts where her opinion and mine differ, but her style is humorous without being overly giddy, and she drops in social activism without creating a guilt trip.

Dirty Sugar Cookies is an autobiography through food – Ayun Halliday matures through the book from a picky eater to one who will eat anything. She is nostalgic about foods from her childhood, and talks about the various friends and family who influenced her as she began to experiment with cooking and food. Ayun shares wonderful recipes for brownies, post-coital pancakes, chipotle chili, and veggie burgers from her vegan/vegetarian stage. The recipes themselves are hilarious, “whale on it for 2 minutes” about a pudding – or for the chili “customize it to suit any palate: carnivorous, white meat only, pescetarian, vegetarian, cannibalistic … the chipotle ensures that modifications of the flesh won’t lead to any culinary ruination.”

You know what? With entries like that, it’s no wonder I preferred to read the book than watch my daughters’ soccer practices! This book definitely gets a thumbs up from me. I’m going to copy down a few recipes to test out, then hand it off to a friend. Given how much her friends influenced her cooking, I bet Ayun would approve.

MotherTalk Tour – The Identity Trap

December 7th, 2007 by Rachel

My oldest daughter turns 9 tomorrow – four short years from 13. In 9 years I will have 3 teenaged girls in the house. Yikes. I watch my friends who have teenagers, and wonder how they can keep themselves, their teens, and their other children happy and sane all at once. It looks so overwhelming from the outside. But then, when you are pregnant with your first child, watching someone with 2 or more children looks overwhelming, too. I know we all grow into our roles, but I worry about peer influence and what types of teens my daughters will become.

I was nervous about reading Joseph Nowinski’s The Identity Trap: Saving Our Teens from Themselves, because quite honestly I just want to stick my head in the sand and believe my girls will stay little forever. However, I signed up for this MotherTalk tour so I could learn about ways to help my girls so they don’t need to be saved from themselves.

The Identity Trap is not a quick or easy read. It isn’t a dull textbook either, though. Rather, it is a mixture of case studies of various teens and notes to help parents with teens in those situations (plus a great index!). Nowinski offers guidelines and FAQs to help the parent of a teen through various situations, to help guide teens away from a negative identity and towards a more constructive expression of emotions.

Some of the case studies are extreme and disturbing – a teen is upset about his family dissolving and his dog dying, and he ends up being charged with murder. I’m sure the most shocking stories are included so parents can see a worst case scenario. However, I found it jarring to read extreme (to me) case studies and then little boxes that say “Heads up!” with a bit of advice. Further, the advice and recommendations seemed rather like common sense:

“Heads up! When it comes to punishment, less is more!”
“Heads up! Talk about yourself!”

“Heads up! Learn about what’s going on in your child’s life…”

I plan to keep this book on my shelf and share it with friends who actually have teens. Right now, it seemed to be giving me information I already had – keep talking with your kids, know what they are doing, parent gently, pick your battles, and allow some rebellion as long as no one gets hurt.

I really like that Nowinski tells parents not to assume that their child is mentally ill – teens do things that can look like mental illness when they are actually totally age appropriate. I also like his attitude within the book, and I am sure that in a few years I’ll need a reality check about what behavior is OK and what behavior needs help. Having a wonderful index is also a huge plus – it is easy to look up certain behaviors and learn more.

I would definitely recommend reading or skimming The Identity Trap if you have teens, and picking out the information that is most useful for your family. You may not need the whole book, but by checking out the table of contents and the index, you’ll be able to get the content you need quickly.

Engaging History: Picture Books about the Past

December 7th, 2007 by Rachel

My husband loves history. He becomes animated about any historical topic. We discuss links between fiction and history, and we cover a lot of history while homeschooling (this year’s focus is the American Revolution).

However, most children’s books about historical topics are not that much fun to read. They don’t engage the audience, and they either have so much text that it is overwhelming, or so little that there really isn’t much point in reading it. We recently found two great books about historical topics which presented them in a way that was fun for everyone – the audience AND the reader.

Sleds on Boston Common: A Story from the American Revolution, by Louise Borden, illustrated by Robert Andrew Parker is a fictionalization of a true story during the American Revolution. This book is a bit heavy on the text, but it gives you the background about just how many British soldiers were in Boston in the winter of 1774-5 (1 soldier for ever 5 citizens). The main character is Henry, a young boy who just received a homemade sled for his birthday. At lunch, he and his brothers and sister go to Boston Common to use his new sled on the sled run before classes resume. However, when they arrive at the Common, they find that the troops have broken the ice on the ponds (so no ice skating), broken down the snow forts, and pitched tents and placed cooking fires on the sled run.

“For over a hundred years the Common belonged to everyone in Boston. Now it was covered by the barracks of General Gage’s troops.” General Thomas Gage was the Royal Governor of Massachusetts, and he was not well loved – he was enforcing a blockade on the harbor, and there were tough times during that winter. Henry and his siblings walked through the tents, keeping track of what they saw and heard for the Sons of Liberty. As they walk, they see General Gage, and he is speaking kindly to the troops, he “looked like a man who would listen, a good man, a man like my father.”

Henry goes up to General Gage, and requests that he listen to a town boy’s complaint. He explains the problem, and General Gage says that his children are in England, but they would also want to sled and skate if they were there. He instructs his troops to let the children sled (and move things from the sledding run) and leave the ice unbroken on one of the ponds for sledding.

The illustrations of this book match perfectly with the time period depicted, and the last pictures of the children sledding are wonderful, and evoke memories from anyone who has ever gone down a hill on a sled! The book finishes with a description of the beginning of the American Revolution, and has an Author’s note about what is true and what is fictionalized.


The Bus Ride that Changed History: The Story of Rosa Parks, by Pamela Duncan Edwards, illustrated by Danny Shanahan is a book written in a completely different style. This book is written in a rhyming, repetitive form, so each page builds on the next (as in “the house that Jack built” or “there was an old woman who swallowed a fly”). However, in this book there are modern-day children asking and answering questions about Rosa Parks and the Civil Rights movement that unfolded because of her bravery.

The book starts with:

This is a law forbidding

black people to sit next to white people on buses
which was overturned because one woman was brave

The book continues as it describes the segregation, and the inequality and bullying that were a part of the segregation laws. The modern-day children who are discussing the laws (in little speech bubbles outside of the rhyming pattern), ask and answer the questions that most children would have while reading the book (which is lovely, because otherwise the designated reader would have to find the answers somewhere!).

This is Rosa Parks, who said “No!” to
the driver who told her to move for the white man
left standing near the seats of black passengers riding
the bus in Montgomery,

where they enforced a law forbidding
blacks to sit next to whites on buses
which was overturned because one woman was brave

The book then explains the bus boycott, the beginning of the civil rights movement and Dr. Marting Luther King, Jr., and the Supreme Court overturning the segregation laws. It gives children information without overwhelming them, nor by dumbing it down. There is also a time line at the end of the book which outlines Rosa Parks’ life. The pictures are perfect for the text – detailed, but almost cartoonish so they are not intimidating for the children.

We recommend Sleds on Boston Common: A Story from the American Revolution for boys and girls ages 6-11 or so, our 3 year old was not interested in the longer sections of text, but the older two were fascinated by the look into the lives of children in history.

We would recommend The Bus Ride that Changed History: The Story of Rosa Parks for boys and girls ages 3-10 or so. When I was writing up this review, my 3 year old came over and said, “will you read me the story of the woman who was brave?” It’s a wonderful book for beginning or continuing the discussion on civil rights.

MotherTalk Tour – Parenting Beyond Belief

December 7th, 2007 by Rachel

This review is part of a MotherTalk Blog Tour was quoted in the July 16, 2007 issue of Newsweek and is also quoted at the Parenting Beyond Belief website!

I may have mentioned before that I’m not a big non-fiction person. But when the opportunity came to this secular, imperfect person and homeschooler to do a blog tour with MotherTalk for Parenting Beyond Belief: On Raising Ethical, Caring Kids Without Religion, I was hooked. Admittedly, I’m always a sucker for a free book, but this one called to me in a way that few non-fiction books call to me. When I received it and opened it, it was almost impossible to put down!

Parenting Beyond Belief is a collection of essays edited by Dale McGowan. It says in the introduction it is not a full-scale parenting book, but yet it still contains some of the parenting strategies I think are most important: caring for a baby/child’s needs, allowing yourself to say “I don’t know”, and respecting a child’s questioning nature.

I was (mostly) raised as a Unitarian Universalist, which is pretty close to being a secular church. I liked being able to say I went to church, and when I was an adult it felt good to say I was taking my kids to church. I love the sense of community, and the sermons that keep me thinking – not about a deity, but about current issues and philosophy rather than theology. My favorite UU congregations have welcomed questions and not had much to do with theology. It can be hard to find a fabulous congregation, though (but if you’re in Austin or Central Connecticut, let me know, I can give you a lead..), and so right now we are parenting without a congregation as backup. Plus we have many more Christian friends now than we ever have – and the girls have participated in several Christian homeschool offerings. I wanted to read about how to back up my feelings and beliefs, and how to discuss them with my children.

The reason I found Parenting Beyond Belief difficult to put down is that it is not a dry instructional book – rather, it is a series of personal essays and stories about how parents have dealt with different issues with their children – the Pledge of Allegiance, death, discussing what friends say about their religion, and much more. I completely agree that with discussion and by exposing children to different beliefs/ideas, the child’s mind will grow and hook onto the beliefs that feel right to them. However, you need to explain your beliefs/ideas to the children too – discussing in a way that sometimes feels uncomfortable (ie: decomposition after death). I am left with the feeling, after reading this book, that as long as I explain my morals, and am willing to answer even the hardest questions, my girls will be OK. Just as my girls love to try to figure out how a drill/VCR/computer/etc works, and want to take it apart to figure it out, they will do the same thing with beliefs – WHY is a great question. My girls love the scientific principle and proving things scientifically – good training for leading a questioning life.

As for the layout of the book, each essay is put into a category, and the categories serve as chapters. The essays are wonderful, and the book pulls out some fabulous quotes to put in the margins. There are point/counter-point essays (on Santa!), which leave you to decide for yourself. The whole book feels like a manual on how to make your own decisions – but a manual that you want to keep reading. If you are a parent leading a secular (or UU) life, and you want to help guide your children through their questioning, this book is a must-read. In addition, at the end of each chapter there are a lot of footnotes and additional resources for further reading/investigation. There are also some great discussions on finding and building community. If you want more ideas for answers, beyond the basic “do to other people what you want them to do to you” morals and ethics and caring – please go buy Parenting Beyond Belief or check it out from the library. It made me feel like I had a reference book that I could reach for when I feel overwhelmed by some of the quasi-religious questions in the house, and that’s a great feeling.

Five Funny Animal books

December 7th, 2007 by Rachel

We love books about animals. These are funny, good reads for boys or for girls – they are silly and off-the-wall, and fun books, which should enthrall all the readers, as well as the adults.

We picked up Ballet of the Elephants by Leda Schubert, illustrated by Robert Andrew Parker, simply because of the cover. Who can resist ballerinas dancing in front of an elephant in a tutu? What we really loved about this book was that this is a true story! The book tells about a ballet dreamed up by John Ringling North, choreographed by George Ballanchine, to music composed by Igor Stravinsky. We learn about John Ringling North growing up in the circus business, and his dreams; as well as the backgrounds of Ballanchine and Stravinsky – but all as a part of the story, not in a way that distracts from the excitement of the ballet/elephants/circus. The illustrations of the dancers with the ballet-dancing elephants are amazing – and the end pages include photographs of the real elephant ballet. This book was very, very cool.

Moving from the inspiring and cool to the absurd and cool is Young MacDonald by David Milgrim. This story is about Old MacDonald’s son, who uses his cloning machine to make crazy animals -

Young MacDonald Had a farm,
Ee-i-ee-i-o.
And on that farm he made …
A Hig! Ee-i-ee-i-o.
With an Oink-Neigh here
and an Oink-Neigh there,

etc. It’s hysterical to watch Young MacDonald create Deese, Shickens, Mucks, a Cowl, but then he accidentally makes a Bog (boy/dog) – with an “oops-arf”! When Young MacDonald’s parents come back to the farm with pizza for dinner, he manages to make things right, so everyone can enjoy their meal! It’s a sweet, silly, quick, and fun read. The adults will get a kick out of the changes to the animals, and the kids find it funny to sing silly noises to the traditional Old MacDonald song.

Another farmer with cows is the main character in Manny’s Cows: The Niagara Falls Tale, by Suzy Becker (she of greeting card fame). This is a fun story about a boy who is upset because he can’t take a summer vacation – he has to take care of his 500 cows. He thinks about it, and thinks about it, and thinks some more, until he figures out what to do – he decides to take the cows with him on vacation! They pack, get on the bus, and head for Niagra falls. The cows are hysterical characters, upsetting Manny with constant sing-alongs on the bus ride, and requesting food breaks and bathroom breaks. The cows all go on tours of Niagra falls, and ring up a huge bill at the gift shop, and then they have to figure out how to help Manny pay for his vacation, which has turned into a nightmare. They’re quite inventive, and we all hope that Suzy Becker comes out with a sequel! As a bonus, there are cow facts sprinkled throughout the book – so you can count it as entertaining and educational!

Deputy Harvey and the Ant Cow Caper by Brad Sneed is another book that counts as fun and educational. Deputy Harvey is an Ant who is trying to solve the mystery of the missing Ant Cows. The book explains at the end that “Ant Cows” are actually aphids, and real ants drink the juice made by aphids, called honeydew. Real ants will truly round up a herd of aphids to “milk” it for the honeydew! But back to the book … Deputy Harvey’s town is having problems – half the Ant Cow herd is missing! His Sheriff is grouchy, requiring honeydew coffee before he will go out to interview a witness. Witness Clem says the cows vanished, and he just thinks they had spots, leading the deputy and sheriff think of Ladybugs. The entire town becomes upset about the idea of running out of honeydew. When someone comes to town selling Diamond A honeydew at a golden price, most folks buy it so they will have some, but Deputy Harvey is convinced there is something rotten, and figures it is odd that none of the Diamond A cows are being stolen. Deputy Harvey dresses up as an Ant Cow to solve the crime, and returns to the diner for some honeydew cakes a hero! You have to read it to find out how he captures the crooks, though – I can’t do it justice here. This is a great book for boys and girls who like mysteries but prefer them to be more gentle. It’s also great for bug-lovers and kids who like to learn about animals through stories instead of straight facts. It’s another fun book for the adult reader, too.

If you like a little learning amid a lot of fun, another book to check out is Dinosaurumpus!, by Tony Mitton, illustrated by Guy Parker-Reese. Parker-Reese also illustrated Giraffes Can’t Dance, which has a similar feel. In Dinosaurumpus!, the dinosaurs start to donk, bomp, shake, shudder, and other noises. Each dinosaur is named and described – “Here’s Triceratops jumping up and down doing dinosaur hops. He wears three horns on his big, bony head, and thunders around with a Bomp! Bomp! tread.” The rhythm of the words and the noises used grab the audience’s attention, and the illustrations are colorful and amusing. All the dinosaurs gather to dance together, when they hear the “Roooaaarrr…!” of Tyrannosaurus crashing into the middle of the dance! Thankfully, he wants to “join the romp”, and everyone is encouraged to romp together near the sludgy old swamp. This book has a similar feel to some of the Sandra Boynton books (I’m especially thinking of Barnyard Dance!

, but Dinosaurumpus! has an older-kid feel, with the names of different dinosaurs, and a longer storyline. This is a book that is especially recommended to the kids who adore dinosaurs, but kids who love dancing, music, rhythm, or even brightly colored pictures would love this book, too.

All five of these books receive a thumbs up from the three girls who live here – 3, 6, and 8 years old. Several of their friends have also enjoyed them, and the boys especially liked Dinosaurumpus!. As the main adult reader in the house, I was happy to read these more than once, and they are currently overdue at the library because we’ve enjoyed them so much!

Ben and Me

December 7th, 2007 by Rachel

This is another twist on the topic of War in Children’s Books – this is the story of Ben Franklin, and his role in the American Revolution. But it’s told from the perspective of a mouse living in Ben’s hat!

Ben and Me: An Astonishing Life of Benjamin Franklin by His Good Mouse Amos is a (probably) fictionalized novel by Robert Lawson. As a youngster, I had loved this story about Ben Franklin, as told by a mouse named Amos who lived in his hat. I had forgotten about the book for a long time, and then a homeschooling friend (who is studying the American Revolution with us) mentioned how much her daughter had enjoyed the book.

Ben and Me begins when Amos (the mouse) leaves his poor, church mice family and ends up in the home and hat of Benjamin Franklin. Ben keeps him in his fur hat as Amos helps him through diplomatic discussions and plans for the Declaration of Independence and the Revolutionary War. They have a falling out over Ben’s experiments with electricity (which is incredibly amusing!), and Amos does not travel with Ben on his first diplomatic trip overseas. This trip does not succeed, so Ben comes home to ingratiate himself with Amos again. Once they have made up, Amos continues to help him, and they go to France in an attempt to get funding for the American Revolution. Since Amos is there to help him, it all goes well, and the story is simply wonderful.

All three of my girls (preschooler through third grade) loved Ben and Me. When my brother was a boy in that age range or a little older, he really enjoyed the book, too – this book seems to be a great read for any child with imagination and an interest in history. Ben Franklin is a fascinating character on so many levels – many adults have read Benjamin Franklin: An American Life, but this book is a much more approachable one. Some of the “facts” included in Ben and Me have been disproved in the time since Robert Lawson wrote the book (ie: electricity discovered by kite flying with a key), but the book serves as a wonderful introduction to the life and legend of Ben Franklin and his impact on American History. If your kids are very interested in the science aspect, we suggest The Ben Franklin Book of Easy and Incredible Experiments: A Franklin Institute Science Museum Book so they can do some of Ben Franklin’s experiments themselves.

Robert Lawson has written many more books about American Historical figures from the point of view of an animal, and we are excited to read about other characters as we continue our study of American history.

Fairy Tales, or Tales of Fairies

December 7th, 2007 by Rachel

My daughters love fairies. They build houses for them, look for them on nature walks, and adore listening to stories and poems about them. Here are a few of our favorite tales of Fairies.

Cicely Mary Barker’s books are wonderful, and a fabulous peek into the world of the Flower Fairies. She has written a lot of books about fairies, so even if your library doesn’t have the ones we mention, they will likely have several others! A great book to get you jump started into the world of Flower Fairies is Cicely Mary Barker’s original book, The Complete Book of the Flower Fairies. Each page contains a picture of a Flower and its Flower Fairy, and the poem that goes with him or her. The poems are sweet and short, and teach you about the special qualities of both the plant/flower and the Fairy that lives there.

Once you read Flower Fairies Secret World, you will never look the same way at a stand of flowers or a group of sticks. Cicely Mary Barker’s book opens your eyes to all the places Flower Fairies are hiding (which gives you some great ideas on how to find them!), as well as teaching you about how the Flower Fairies live their lives in their world.

Once you have discovered the magic world of Fairies, you will no doubt be drawn into building homes for the fairies. So check out Fairy Houses … Everywhere!, and explore the photographs taken of homes made for Fairies by humans. Every creation uses natural materials, and is built into the existing landscape, in exquisite miniature. The photographs are astounding, and you truly feel as if a Fairy is just waiting for the camera to leave so he/she can move into one of these fabulous homes. Watch out where you step in your yard after reading this book, though – you may accidentally disrupt a Fairy house!

Fairies are fast – they will frequently leave their homes before your children get out of bed, and then seem to magically disappear whenever a human is nearby. Since real Fairies are not ideal playmates, the Klutz Fairies kit helps your children create Fairies to populate their homes, and brighten their days.

May the fairies come visit you and your family soon!

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